Ask A Sexpert

Do you have a question you would like to ask one of our sexperts?  Have a dating story you would like to share?  Or, do would you like some guidance from one of our authors?  Well we would love to hear from you!

Please email your questions to Max at, LA at, or Arthur at and we will post your question with an answer as soon as we can.

4 thoughts on “Ask A Sexpert

    • That’s a tough question because I’ve learned that every person and situation is so different. Honestly, in most cases though, I would have to say no it won’t. It hasn’t in any of my experiences and I have come to realize that if he is a good guy, he won’t try that soon. Guys who want to sleep with you right away, 99 times out of 100 really just want sex from you. There may be repeat sex. There may be friendship. Yet, relationships with men who rush into sex are rare. That is not to discourage you from doing what you want to do though and if it feels right and you are ready, there is nothing wrong with sex on date 2. We’ve all done it. I would love to hear what other people have to say and if anyone has a story of it working out but I’m sorry to report that in what I have experienced and my friends have told me, it does not typically turn into a romantic relationship. A good guy would never rush things.

  1. I recently met a very nice guy on a dating site. We had a great first date, we definitely hit it off, had lots in common and he texted me immediately after to thank me for a great first date and said he could wait to see me again. For our second date we met at his house for pizza and movies. We hung out all day, held hands, cuddled a little bit and he kissed me. About an hour before I had to leave things started getting heated and we ended up giving each other oral sex, it was agreed that it was great for both of us and he said he definitely wanted to get together again. He texted me today and we talked for a bit but I feel like he is being a little standoffish, I told him I was pretty flexible this week if he wanted to get together and he said he thinks he needs to catch up on sleep (he works nights) and focus on some work stuff. On the date, he said he was very attracted to me and after he apologized for trying to get physical so soon, and that he had a bit of a hard time controlling himself. I thought I should maybe back off a tad so he doesn’t think I’m overbearing and I know that sex doesn’t mean a definite relatiomship. Should I be worried? Is there any hope to build a real relationship now?

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