The Blow Job Obsession

So, a while back, when my blog was brand new I wrote a post about blow jobs titled Sex in the Early Stages of Dating, the Blowjob First Rule.  While this post has brought me a large number of voracious  onlookers it is actually rather disappointing to see that it is my top article by far each day.  I strive to write interesting and unique articles that discuss real issues in the dating world.  My goal with this blog was to appeal to the masses, both men and women, and touch upon issues that everyone can relate to with regards to dating.  I wanted to talk about everything from love and romance to drunken one night stands because these things are talked about and lived each day.  I wanted to write about topics that people could relate to and would want to comment on and instead I feel like the sexual aspects of my blog have become the focus when that was never my intention. Continue reading

Topics in Dating

So I’ve been scouring the internet on my downtime at work in hopes of finding some salacious topic to pique my readers’ interests and actually am somewhat surprised and dissappointed at what comes up when I Google dating.  I placed topics in dating into Google, hoping there would be a list of topics I could write about–things that are of interest to the masses regarding dating.  Instead I find a myriad of articles pertaining to what to discuss and not discuss on a first date.  I probe these articles, now curious as to what the self-help gurus of the web have to say about what’s acceptable and unacceptable fodder for an initial date.  The findings are actually quite interesting. Continue reading

The Popularization of Teen Pregnancy

With Snooki being pregnant I have recently started thinking a lot about pregnancy in the media lately.  Over the past few years there has been this surge in pregnancies of teens and unwed women.  I’m certainly not against a woman deciding to have a child without being married but I do feel that a pregnancy absolutely must be planned and must happen when one is emotionally, physically, and financially ready.  Snooki is in no way prepared to have a child and that got me thinking of all the teen moms being glamorized on TV.  There are shows like Teem Mom and 16 and Pregnant.  They seem to give young girls hope that they can have a kid that young and make it work and I just can’t get behind those shows. Continue reading

Shaq a Criminal??

He’s one of the most well-known pro basketball players in the history of the game, and now Shaquille O’neal is gaining publicity of a different kind – the criminal kind.  He is being questioned in a criminal case involving kidnapping and robbery! Continue reading

Ever Wanted to Hike Nude…Now You Can

Have you ever wanted to hike nude?  I know I sure haven’t seeing as there are poisonous  plants and bugs to be wary of on any trail but hey, to each his own.  If you are in the market for letting your dairy aire and nether regions hang out and be one with nature then I have some great news for you.  Germany has just launched their first hiking trail for nudists. Continue reading

Murphy’s Law Days

Have you ever had a day where from the moment you wake up in the morning until the minute you rest your head on your pillow at night, nothing seems to go your way?  You snooze your alarm too many times or sleep through it all together which leads you to hop in the shower 20 minutes late.  Your boss calls with an excessive amount of work before you even leave for the office and on the drive in you get stuck behind a car going 10 miles per hour for the full duration of your trip.  Finding a parking spot at the office lot takes longer than usual and by the time you get to work you are a half hour late, agitated, and on edge .  Your coworkers are pestering you with additional responsibilities and the phone rings off the hook with others in need of your services and/or shit hitting the fan that you have to clean up.  Everyone is in a bad mood, every sound bothers you, and the day grows worse.  Your boyfriend and you have a fight or maybe he dumps you.  You get held up at work past 5 o’clock and hit brutal traffic which results in you being late for your hair appointment.  You try to think positively and be relieved that work is over only to find out that your friend got in a car accident and totaled her vehicle.  Then the building where you are getting your trim goes on fire thus you are evacuated and made to wait in the cold while five fire trucks pull up to save the day.  However, you manage to make it home in one piece—stunned and irritated, but alive—and you pass out in your bed due to exhaustion from the day as well as fear that if you stay awake more misery will come your way.  This is what I call a Murphy’s Law Day.  Continue reading

Lebron James’ Mother Arrested

And now for my favorite story of the day which I got from TMZ…

Gloria JamesLebron James’ mother slapped a Miami Beach valet so hard in the face, she lost her balance and fell to the ground — then told a police officer, “I don’t trust your kind” … this according to the police report.  Continue reading

Can Sex Really Ever Be Casual

I find myself repeating like a broken tune
And I’m forever excusing your intentions
And I give in to my pretendings
Which forgive you each time
Without me knowing
They melt my heart to stone

And I hear your words that I made up
You say my name like there could be an us
I best tidy up my head I’m the only one in love
I’m the only one in love”

-Adele

Can sex really ever be casual?  Are we ever truly capable of reaching the ultimate physical level with a person and not feeling a thing beyond an orgasm?  If so, does this make us less humane or immoral?  Should we feel attached to someone we make that level of a connection with or is it acceptable for two people to use one another for sexual gratification and pleasure without intentions on either end of it ever going further?  What happens when one person falls in love? Continue reading

Sexiquette.com on the Radio Round 2!

For the second weekend in a row I was on the Arty and Eric Show on Unregularradio.com.  When Eric returns from vacation in a few weeks I will be live in the studio (more details to come).  If you missed the the live broadcast, here is a recording or my call in: Continue reading