Casual Sex Part Deux

I feel like I’ve written about this before but it’s a topic that comes to my mind again–whether or not sex really can be casual.  I have always been notorious for falling for guys that I sleep with regardless of the quality of the sex, length of time knowing the person, and my attraction to the person.  I definitely would not say I fall in love–that is reserved for special circumstances but I tend to become enamored with the person and want more than just that physical contact–I want hearts and flowers as EL James would say.  I know that sex and love and relationships are all separate entities, especially for guys but am I so crazy for wanting something more than a hook up?  I think my unconscious decision to want more with these men stems from some underlying sense of guilt I have for sleeping with a guy who hasn’t wined and dined me much or at all yet.  It is this guilt that I am annoyed with.  I shouldn’t feel ashamed of engaging in consensual safe sex but for some reason I do.  Continue reading

“You’re a Cool Chick and All But I Don’t Want to Be Obligated to Hang Out With You”

Over the years I’ve been dumped in practically every imaginable way.  One guy claimed to be moving to Maryland (my personal favorite).  Others have decided that they just want to be single.  Another told me he didn’t want to be obligated to hang out with me (my least fave).  No matter what they say, what excuse they use, getting dumped hurts.  Well, I just got my heart broken yet again and this time it was by someone I really saw a future with. Continue reading

Miley Cyrus Lingerie Cell Phone Pics

Miley Cyrus

So, it’s not just Venessa Hudgens who takes naked photos and texts them.  Disney’s Miley Sirus does too!  She may not be naked but she is lifting up her shirt and pulling down her pants.  What does everyone think, sexy or not?? Continue reading

Vanessa Hudgens…More Nude Photos Surface

Recently photos of Venessa Hudgens naked and in her underwear had surfaced in the media.  Well, now there are more.  What happened to her?  She was the face of Disney and High School Musical and now she’s posing for sexy covers and releasing nude pics?  The reports actually say she’s quite embarrassed and I do feel bad for her but the moral of the story here is don’t take sexy pics and text them to your boyfriend if you’re a celebrity.  I hate to say it but she’s really hot.  I can’t help but think of her as a child because of the films she does but she will certainly break out into more adult movies and roles now if this stuff doesn’t tank her career.  Although, I’m sure it will only help her because this type of stuff has boded well for people like Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian so I don’t see why the adorable yet sexy Vanessa Hudgens would be any exception.  Here are the pics as well as well as her sexy Details shoot from last month:

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Sexploits: Sex on the First Date Great Time or Bad Decision? (Follow Up)

As I mentioned in my earlier follow-up to the posting “Sex in the Early Dating Stages Sex on the First Date: Too Soon or Just Right” I had written a Sexploits article discussing two examples of sex on the first date.  I wasn’t going to publish it after some recent events changed my original feelings on the subject; however, I decided that I would still publish it in it’s entirety with a preface. Continue reading