The Blow Job Obsession

So, a while back, when my blog was brand new I wrote a post about blow jobs titled Sex in the Early Stages of Dating, the Blowjob First Rule.  While this post has brought me a large number of voracious  onlookers it is actually rather disappointing to see that it is my top article by far each day.  I strive to write interesting and unique articles that discuss real issues in the dating world.  My goal with this blog was to appeal to the masses, both men and women, and touch upon issues that everyone can relate to with regards to dating.  I wanted to talk about everything from love and romance to drunken one night stands because these things are talked about and lived each day.  I wanted to write about topics that people could relate to and would want to comment on and instead I feel like the sexual aspects of my blog have become the focus when that was never my intention. Continue reading

What Constitutes a Great Blowjob?

So, after my most recent post surrounding the blowjob first rule I decided to do some web research to see what exactly constitutes a great blow job. (nsfw) Continue reading

Sex in the Early Dating Stages: The Blowjob First Rule

Countless times over the past year while filling in my best friend “A” on my forays in the dating world, I found myself grumbling about my failure in this arena.  She is 13 years older than me and all of the dates she has ever been on have resulted in serious, long-term relationships with her holding all the power.  Mine, on the other hand, start off steamy then fizzle out quickly and for a long time I felt powerless to this cycle.  Whenever I would see her, we would spend our evenings catching up on all my dating mishaps and adventures while eating dinner and watching the latest episodes of our guilty pleasure shows like Jersey Shore.  At one point I had been on dates with so many guys that she couldn’t even keep track of all their names and corresponding stories.  Each guy tale ended with the ridiculous reason why I ran the other way or the awful excuse he used to cut his ties.  Some of these men I had slept with but most of the dating encounters never got that far and stopped at first base. (nsfw) Continue reading