So, a while back, when my blog was brand new I wrote a post about blow jobs titled Sex in the Early Stages of Dating, the Blowjob First Rule. While this post has brought me a large number of voracious onlookers it is actually rather disappointing to see that it is my top article by far each day. I strive to write interesting and unique articles that discuss real issues in the dating world. My goal with this blog was to appeal to the masses, both men and women, and touch upon issues that everyone can relate to with regards to dating. I wanted to talk about everything from love and romance to drunken one night stands because these things are talked about and lived each day. I wanted to write about topics that people could relate to and would want to comment on and instead I feel like the sexual aspects of my blog have become the focus when that was never my intention. Continue reading →
Oh dating, why do you have to be so complicated?! I have a friend who currently has gone on a few dates with a guy who has literally done everything right. He pays, he’s respectful, he makes his intentions known, and he is mature enough and looking for something serious–just what she could ask for. The only problem is, she isn’t sexually attracted to him. To make things more complicated she recently met and hooked up with a guy she is very sexually attracted to but who is all wrong for her to date. He is much younger, has never really been in an adult relationship, and likely will not date her. His friend is a player and he likely will play my friend too but she still wants to give things a try. What is it with us women that we get ourselves into these situations? Continue reading →
Since achieving supermodel stardom by being Sports Illustrated’s Swimsuit Model of the Year, Kate Upton has been garnering a lot of publicity. Now she can even add the high fashion pages of Vogue Spain July 2012 to her wildly growing repertoire. Continue reading →
I feel like I’ve written about this before but it’s a topic that comes to my mind again–whether or not sex really can be casual. I have always been notorious for falling for guys that I sleep with regardless of the quality of the sex, length of time knowing the person, and my attraction to the person. I definitely would not say I fall in love–that is reserved for special circumstances but I tend to become enamored with the person and want more than just that physical contact–I want hearts and flowers as EL James would say. I know that sex and love and relationships are all separate entities, especially for guys but am I so crazy for wanting something more than a hook up? I think my unconscious decision to want more with these men stems from some underlying sense of guilt I have for sleeping with a guy who hasn’t wined and dined me much or at all yet. It is this guilt that I am annoyed with. I shouldn’t feel ashamed of engaging in consensual safe sex but for some reason I do. Continue reading →
While on a recent lunch date with my bff and her sister, I stumbled into an interesting conversation that both surprised and enlightened me. This friend was telling us a funny old story that involved a boy whom was in love with her but wasn’t interested in dating her or in a relationship. It was not the humorous tale involving inebriation and vomiting that shocked me but rather the revelation that there is someone else out there who experienced this type of dater–or non-dater rather–The Amorous Commit-a-phobe. I know that seems like an oxymoron, but yet they do exist and I finally realize that perhaps my crazy dating life in which I feel so scattered and alone is not so uncommon after all. Continue reading →
So recently I decided to venture into the online dating world since I have both a male and female friend who utilize the technological means of meeting someone and with some luck. Neither of them has had a serious relationship come of their forays but none the less they have met members of the opposite sex and gone on dates–and that’s more than I can say I’ve done in the past few months (with the exception of one boy whom I met at a bar with his dad…long humorous story for another day). Continue reading →
Having quickly risen to Top Model status, Candice Swanepoel posed for a new series Victoria’s Secret SWIM 2012 campaign shots and looks as sexy as ever in them.
The 23-year-old South African stunner struck a range of poses in the lingerie giant’s new range of beachwear with a tropical setting acting as the backdrop and looked amazing while doing it. Continue reading →
Ok so I’m only reporting on this because it absolutely kills me when celebs get nabbed for DUIs. If anyone has the money for a driver or a cab it’s a celeb. Why on Earth are they getting behind the wheel drunk? I don’t understand how anyone can make the decision to drive drunk but especially celebs, they have a ridiculous amount of money, why can’t they just take a cab or hire a limo driver or something. It’s not like they go out driving and don’t know they are going to be drinking so why take your car out in the first place or they could just leave their car over night if they get too drunk, there is just no excuse. I guess celebs just think that they can do anything or get away with anything–apparently putting their own lives and the lives of others in jeopardy is just meaningless to them though.
So, now to report the actual news after my little rant, Amanda Bynes has landed herself in jail after driving in West Hollywood, California early this morning (Friday, April 6th) under the influence of alcohol. Continue reading →
So I still do not understand exactly how she is famous or why people care so much about her and her family but Kim Kardashian has been the talk of the town lately between her ongoing divorce, her rumored-to-be relationship with Kanye, and her recent flour bombing incident. Well, this morning she paid a visit to the Today Show to talk about just those things…or at least get asked about them. Continue reading →